You Will Never Get Rich

“If you want to be rich, never give up. People tend to give up. If you have persistence, you will come out ahead of most people. More importantly, you will learn. When you do something, you might fail. But that’s not because you’re a failure. It’s because you have not learnt enough. Do it differently each time. One day, you will do it right. Failure is your friend.” _Jordan Belfort

Today I have a good news and a bad news for you, the good news is that, “The person who was not letting you to succeed, has died.”  But the bad news is “That’s you”.  It’s clear that you are not letting yourself go on the edges where your success lies, yes it’s very uncommon most of people just don’t know what their passion is. I was discussing with my friends what stops you to chase your dreams? One of them replied. “No, not me chasing dreams, dreams are chasing me.” If you are going to deeply analyze yourself, you must be willing to approach success, rather failure is a start, you may be willing to climb tree, rather falling in first attempt. We always do what others did, never tried something new, and especially we love to approach all shining things. Knowing that not all shining things are star.

Do what you love; Love what you DO because Every Failure is a SUCCESS.

Let’s learn together the charm of doing things with heart, but for this purpose I must have to tell you the story of a guy who did what he loved.

There was a guy who had three different desires, the first one, he was a computer hardware geek, since his childhood he tried to repair pc, and he was good at repairing computers, he always engaged himself in computers finding something new. The second most powerful desire of becoming an actor, he wanted to earn those fames and money, the third; he never wanted to deploy himself as a job person. He chooses the most power desire to fulfill his dream of becoming an actor regardless having no prior knowledge and experience of acting, he just wanted to be there as a Hero. What happens at that pace when he goes to an audition, having portfolio in hand, gets a chance of acting in first attempt, when he is called for an audition, he fails to act like a hero, and if he’s offered other role than being Hero he refuses, he believes that he acts very professionally but in fact he’s not, he is expelled from that audition. Gets the second chance and so on. At all he is rejected in all auditions and get frustrated, makes his mind never to act again as he was humiliated in every audition.

“Pata nahi kahan kahan se uth ke ajate hai hero banne, shakal dekhi hai apni? Chal bhaag yahan se”

On the other side his family is against him, saying why don’t you do job. He’s having no interest in any kind of job.

He intends what if I start my own business of computers, he discusses that idea with his family but again his idea is refused. He had some money which was only Rs10, 000. In only ten thousand it’s really impossible to start a business, especially computers. His desire was not bigger than being an actor because he knew everything about computers.

The next day he goes to market to collect information about the prices of computers, goes to different shops and gets their brochures. He discovers that one pc costs Rs8000 in retail market, he had knowledge of computers he knew more about the spare parts,  once again he went to market but this time it was a scrap market he searched shops where he found scrap computers, he asked the shopkeeper for how much do you sell one? The shop keeper replied Rs.1000 for one set. With an intention of doing business he purchased 2 set and further invested Rs4000 to make them usable, now he is having two computers ready to sale which cost him only Rs3000 per set. It was the time for him to learn, how I can sell my product to market, if I were that guy I would have chosen to learn from my favorite book Marketing Management by Philip Kotler.  He did the same, and learned whatever he wanted to be aware of launching his product to market.  He got thousand pamphlet printed, and distributed, with a cost of Rs900, he was very happy as he received only two phone calls, but no sell order. He did that again, and his first computer sold in Rs5000. He kept doing the same thing, when his family members saw his growing success; they suggested opening a shop and hiring a team, because he was doing everything himself. He did the same and still he is growing his business, with more than 50 employees.

Now think for a while if that guy can operate home business and grows it, why not he can go beyond limits, be the best company in country/world.

You are complete already, a product of universal abundance, so relax and enjoy life ... what you desire will show up with less effort and no anxiety. When that guy allowed his awareness to do only what he desired, thus maintaining his sense of true inspiration, he found himself less and less attached to stuff.

Think and Grow Rich

One should put forth the efforts in life as a measure of what you expect to have in life, no more and no less. And this goes with the adage, the harder I work the more blessed I become. I believe the hardest working people in life have less time to doubt their abilities, when they work extremely hard. Those that put as much time and motivation in the preparation to win as they do in winning, then they build a path to winning. Those that expect to win generally do. A person that has a mission in life will work harder for two reasons, they know what they are working for and they believe in the outcomes.

Success is Effective and Efficient usage of time

The harder I work the luckier I get, is the principle of my life.  I believe in Invisible Forces, the forces that drive our emotions and feelings, in other words I call it resources and resourcefulness these both are different. What we say resources is, decisions shape destiny, what is my focus here. The alternate way by which, we get energies.

Resources	Resourcefulness
Time	Creativity
Money	Determination
Technology	Love / Caring
Contact	Curiosity
Experience	Passion
Management	Resolve

If you are deep inside water, after a while you come out what you do at that time, you come out and take some fresh breaths ins and outs, (Haaa Haaa Haaa) no matter how you feel no matter what others think. You just do it. The time which you must use to be successful you use it to be alive. And that’s it the time, you use to become successful, you sacrifice what you are, to become what you want.

When every time you feel like dying without taking some fresh breaths, and do so, believe me you will become successful. You must feel your success never give up, be successful.

The time which you must use to be successful you are using it on cell phone, if somebody calls you and tells you the time which you must use to be successful you are using it on cell phone. You are not yourself you are a liar. You keep telling yourself the time which you must use to be successful you are using it on cell phone.

I believe in emotions I believe on feelings, I believe in resources, I believe in resourcefulness, because the time which I must use to be successful I am using it on my success.

Countless Confidence, More for Less

Think again before reading this, it’s not as easy as you may understand,

Let’s start, apart from the ability to perform works, there is something legging between called “Confidence”, what I mean to say, there is difference between ability and confidence, think a while how do we perform works? And how do we show our confidence? When these both things are connected together during a work? I often hear from people, they say we are not confident, even I myself used to say the same, years ago, before discovering the unleashed methods, though there are many ways people did their own. So today I am going to tell you what is the countless confidence? And how can that benefit our self?

So I think it’s really hard to see into oneself, and self-analyze one’s own confidence.

About three month ago I was standing at a bus stop, there were many people like me waiting for their buses, I saw a girl aged around 12 and half, torn dusty cloths, innocent by face, with no slippers. She came to me and held my hand, when I looked into her eyes, without wasting a single second she said, her “Magic Script” and kept on saying, she was not leaving my hand, finally I had to give her some thing, I gave her 10 rupees and she went, one thought was coming in my mind, “why did she go after collecting 10 rupees? There were around twenty people on that stop. Why only me?

I struggled to find out the answer, kept on going, it took me around a week to come at a point of conclusion, that was simple, but I was laughing afterword, what was that? She was confident because she knew her prospect; she selected her target and her possibility of success. It’s strange to tell you a real life story, you may have observed, or it happened with you.

So in other words how we see confidence in our daily life.

“Confidence then is a way to unfold the world as one of POSSIBILITIES FOR ACTION”

Confidence can along with someone who sees disaster lurking around every corner or in someone who thinks everyone will turn out right. Rather, action is a kind of knowledge; it is knowledge HOW to attack problems and perhaps knowledge THAT one has this attacking skill. It is the difference between “learned helplessness” and other hard-to-characterize psychological states that can overtake people when they do not see opportunities. People without confidence see certain actions as impossible or closed off. Someone without confidence may not start a business, even though they are eminently qualified to do so. They may not ask another person out, even though they are kind and attractive.

Someone who is confident knows that they can adapt to meet a challenge and persevere in the face of unseen obstacles.

 “Overcoming your fears is one of the most empowering things you can ever do for yourself. You’ll prove to yourself you can truly accomplish anything!” I call it confidence booster.

Once one of my friends invited me to deliver a speech and to read keynotes in their college, I accepted his invitation and prepared my stuff, arrived there about 20 minutes earlier, having some pages in my hand and I was reading all that for fluency purpose, meanwhile my friend said to me, get ready within 5 minutes it’s your turn and he went, I stood up and wanted to be alone for a while, I moved somewhere and facing myself in mirror, after some minutes a lady came and asked me, Sir are you nervous? I looked at her and imagined myself a Superhero, with deep voice I replied no, but she was not satisfied by my answer again she asked, I did as same, after her last sentence. I was shocked, she simply said, if you are not nervous what are doing in ladies toilet?

After all, I came to stage but that my nervousness was in my mind, I was not able to say a single word, about 10 minutes, I stood behind rostrum, finally a student raised his voice loudly, Come on! Sir you can do it. I felt a little bit happy and commenced my speech, at end, everyone stood in my honor.

That was the biggest trap for me to face such a situation, and my biggest failure of life.

Imagine yourself in that situation, and see what happens, if you start laughing it means you are going to build a Countless Confidence, More success for less failure.

When the last time you celebrated your happiness? Remember; try to remember when it was the last time, let’s remember together when it was last time we celebrated with heart, during college time saying if we will get good grades in exam we will celebrate? Result comes we pass, no celebration, again if we will get admission in university we will celebrate, even after graduating, we say, we’ll celebrate after getting job. That’s it, keep saying, after salary, promotion, marriage etc. And we keep saying and relaxing our self we will celebrate but in fact there is no celebration in our life, events come and go, rest are the dates in calendar. And that’s the starting point we build a lack of confidence in ourselves.

You are now aware of, what is confidence, how it works. “Boost your confidence by Celebrating Events”

If you aren’t living on the edge, you’re taking up too much space…It has nothing to do with thrill-seeking. It’s about making the most of every moment, about stretching your own boundaries, about being willing to learn constantly…Being out on the edge, with everything at risk, is where you learn—and grow—the most.

If you have read my last session notes, I said we deal with illusions in this world, the more our illusions are perfect, the more we are confident, yes right, Perfectionism is an illusion itself. Many people complain about being not the right person for the right job, sometimes it’s said our workload is too much, we are not heard etc. these are all the symptoms of confidence lack.  Remember one thing, always do what you are afraid of, that’s called confidence. “You know you can’t handle this situation but you also know that if you try to do, you will be able to handle.”

Take a risk; take a chance make a change and breakaway.

That’s all what I did to cross the lines of confidence, and build a countless confidence, more for less. You must always have in your mind that confidence is made of, actions, fear and possibilities. Try my countless magic script for crossing the lines of confidence.

Countless magic script: {Asaan Hai}. yes, that’s it the thing, will let you cross the confidence lines, when you are in tough and difficult situation, recall the remedy three times, only you will see where your confidence level goes, beyond the lines. You will not be yourself at that time after saying, Asaan hai.

 

Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.